KJV What society finds acceptable changes and worsens with each generation.but God & His Word never change. The traditions and rules of men are what mess it up. Guess what, there's a verse on that, too.
You have to divide truth of the lord from truth of mankind; they define tradition as a sense of gratification or to elevate their own selfish attributes which is called Narcissism. You have to put the person you SERVE first over any selfish thought.