Everything you do is based on the choices YOU make. It's not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy . or your age that is to blame. YOU and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make.
I change my life when I change my thinking. I am Light. I am a wonderful, capable being. And it is time for me to acknowledge I create my own reality with my thoughts. If I want to change my reality, then it time for me to change my mind.
Show respect even to people who dont deserve it, not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours -from Lifehacker, quoting Dave Willis. I really need to remember this because I think I show weakness when I do this, but I shouldn't.