whatever the choice is, the options will surely be based on his current situation which arised from his previous life decisions. No need to judge. Just be factual. Everything will be seen clearer than mineral water.
"If you love flower, do't pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation" --Osho
10 Things Successful Women Do Before Breakfast - PART I
"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.