"Daring greatly means the courage to be vulnerable. Brene Brown quote (Please ignore the I think since we as a society already don't know how to "get married" that "stay married" is quite a dangerous thing to propose for Most marriages)
Our job is not to deny the story, but to defy the ending - to rise strong, recognize our story, and rumble with the truth until we get to a place where we think "Yes, this is what happened. This is my truth. And I will choose how the story ends.