You can always pick out insecure people, by listening to how many backhanded compliments and subtle insults they hand out. The people who try and act like they have it all together are usually the biggest messes! So true.
Even if we resist or avoid change , it will enter our life just the same. When we initiate the change ourselves, it’s pretty easy to adopt to it, since it’s a wanted one. "Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.