Nobody gets to order / oblige anybody in their personal lives . The world is moving on everyday , so if some people can't adjust to it then it's their problem. Not mine or yours. And ,-- you don't get to harrass anybody. You are no exception .
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is therefore not an act, but a habit." — Aristotle
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.