There is a misconception that feminists hate men. But feminism is really about finding the root of socially constructed issues that affect both men and women such as hypermasculinity, rape culture, misogyny, and patriarchy.
I think every woman needs to learn to not need anyone and to always always be able to hold herself up alone. Nothing wrong with love of being with a man, just learn to keep your independence! Needing and wanting a man in your life is different.