The secret to change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the past, but on building the new. Socrates I LOVE this. Especially because I have too much of a tendency to obsess over things in the past.
i CANNOT believe this to be true; this is the most torturous situation i've ever been in, where i've felt the highest of highs & the lowest of lows--AT THE SAME TIME. how can this be worth it? it's tearing me apart! But it's all because of him.